
Oh Jack.
I have been meaning to do a post about just Jack for awhile. He is definetely at a fun age and he always keeps our life interesting. This has been a age of extremes where he can be extremely hard to handle or extremely sweet. It isn't very often that he is inbetween the two :). He loves to have have fun and be silly- he loves to be funny. He is very creative. He plays well by himself but then he always wants to show you what he has been up to. He is fearless. He will run away and then when we have a talk about strangers taking him, he just tells us over and over that he will punch the bad guys. He struggles to be nice around other kids, especially kids that are smaller than him- I am afraid we have a little bully. (It makes gatherings with friends a lot of fun for me) He has always loved playing with kids that are bigger and older than him. He would be totally happy playing with his 9 year old cousin Ethan and his friends all the time. He has continued to be a very sweet brother though. He has NEVER tried to be mean to Charlie and he rarely walks by Charlie without having to stop and kiss him and tell me that he loves his brother.
Here are his 3 year old stats- we took him for his appointment on March 18th:
Height: 38.75 inches 78%
Weight: 33 pounds 63%
He says the funniest things all the time now. Here are a few of them (and some not so funny things he has learned):
"I want my life back" or "I want my old life back"
We have no idea where he got this
"Don't do that, Oh-kay!"
"leave me lone"
"I don't like you, anymore"
He adds Anymore or Oh-kay after just about everything in a rotten tone.
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our conversation the other day:
We had just left some friends and he said to me "I don't like my friends, anymore" I told him, "well your friends probably don't like you very much either since you screamed at them." So he repeated over and over, "My friends don't like me & I don't like my friends, anymore."
Okay Jack, whatever.
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I made hamburgers the other day and we melted swiss cheese on them, he looked at the cheese and said, "gross". I told him it was cheese and he said, "oh I thought it was whip cream"
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The other day it took me awhile to get out of bed while I was feeding Charlie in the morning and Jack was watching cartoons in th living room an when I went out there he had gotten into the cookies, I said Jack, and he replied "sorry mom, I was just starving"
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He does say sweet things too:
he tells us multiple times a day "I love you"
"you're the best thing EVER"
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This has been our week so far:
*he got into his paints and spilled them everywhere
*cut his hair and then came and told me, "mom look I dont have crazy hair anymore"
*almost got hit by a car, because he ran right behind it and then told me, "mom I just missed the car" No Jack you are darn lucky the car missed you.
*he picked up and tried to carry Charlie when we weren't looking, and was holding him by the neck
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This kid will be the death of me :)
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Like I said he keeps my life interesting and busy! I just hope & pray I can keep him alive! I love this kid so much though. I will always have a special place for him, with him being my first and he was the one that made me a mom. It was also just me and him most of the time when we moved away from our family and came to Kansas and Luke was so busy with law school, I couldn't have done it without him! I loved having 3 years with just him being my little buddy and rarely leaving my side. I still prefer to take him with me (most of the time) if I am running to errands, even if Luke is home and tells me to leave him, I am just used to having him by my side. And now that we have added Charlie to our family, it has just made me love Jack more and has made life so fun as we get to watch him be a big brother and be so sweet to Charlie.
We love you Jackers!